Showing posts with label orphans. Show all posts
Showing posts with label orphans. Show all posts

Monday, June 30, 2014

Day 1 - The right way

How do you break the cycle of hopelessness?

Today our Visiting Orphans team arose full of energy, fresh off a jet-lag-fighting long night's sleep, and ready to tackle a full day. We headed to the community of Korah to spend time with two different ministries.

The morning was spent with Embracing Hope (EH), and in the afternoon we were with Out of the Ashes (OA). There are so many people out there who are addressing the hopelessness created by the cycle of poverty, and more and more we see organizations doing it the right way. These are definitely two of them.

How? Well, briefly, EH works with single-parent families (usually mothers) to help the family move beyond the point where their only concern is survival. By providing day care, school, food, and some basic medical care for the children, they can free the parent to make a living and give the family a future. And OA - whose name is based on Psalm 113:7 - works with children who have been mired in the same cycle of hopelessness to provide education and the knowledge that they are loved by people all over the world. In both cases, they are helping those who need it most not by creating more dependency, but creating a process where dignity is a priority and the benefits can be replicated - all while sharing the love of Jesus.

It is our privilege to be a small part of the process for a very short time. And we were blessed to be with the children today. So....

We played.






We laughed.






We loved.


You can't ask for a better day than that.

Sunday, June 29, 2014

Gearing up...Day Zero

Day Zero In Ethiopia and already it's a good trip. No, we did not get much sleep on the plane and yes, it's been a long day. It's important to stay up after a flight like that so you can sleep through the night; somehow we did it.

So, on this day of preparation and fighting through jet lag, there were several highlights:

I got to spend the day with some awesome people and servants of Christ. I can tell already that I will be sad for this week to end.




We made an unscheduled appearance at an international church and worshipped with hundreds of other brothers and sisters in the Lord. Yes, at times it was a struggle to stay alert, but well worth the trip, as we heard a great message from Embracing Hope director Jerry Shannon about what to do when you get more than you can handle. I'm sure we'll be applying that at some point this week.


And we got to spend the day with the staff of Holy Savior Guest House. It is going to be fun working with them all week.

Well, it's on to the children tomorrow morning. Please pray for their hearts to feel the love of Jesus as we are with them. Please pray for the tireless servants of Christ who are with them 24/7/365, before and after we're here. And pray for our team: Danny, Trisha, Clark, and Chasya. Pray that we will follow the Holy Spirit's leading every step of the way.

Off to bed...big day tomorrow. Can't wait!

Wednesday, May 7, 2014

Going Back for More

This is the text of a guest post I did for the Frazer OneFamily blog. I thought this would be a good time to post it here, as we have a little less than ten days to get new sign ups for this year's Visiting Orphans trip to Ethiopia (details here). If you're even thinking about it (or even if you're not), this is why we go:

It was a normal December day less than four years ago. My phone rang at work and I recognized the number. It was my niece Brooke. 

I had promised to take her on a trip for graduation. She was calling to tell me that she wanted to go on a mission trip. 

To Africa.

Africa? Umm, ok. 

I’ve got to confess that in my 50 years I had never once had a thought that I wanted to set foot on African soil. I was so proud of her for wanting to do this, but this was intimidating. Maybe her mom would tell us she couldn’t go.  

I am so glad she didn’t. 

Through the wisdom and heart of this teenager, God moved my heart and gave me an incredible love for the children of a community on the west side of Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.  A place called Korah.  Out of a two-week trip, we only spent two days in Korah. But God spoke to me and I knew I would be back. 




We spent time with a ministry that was doing a summer camp (VBS-like) program for the children, and setting up a programs that would allow many of them to break the cycle and get an education while hearing the Good News. 




This summer I will be going back for the fourth time.  I can’t stay away. 

There are some who would say, why? 

Why keep going back to visit the same children? 

Why not donate money rather than spend it going over there? 

What good are you doing by seeing them one week a year?

Fair questions.  I could probably write a book about why I believe God is leading me to travel across the world to see these people again and again. Or I could just quote James 1:27. But here are just a few reasons I keep going back:

Well, James 1:27…and dozens of other passages about God’s heart for the oppressed. Actually, not just dozens of isolated passages, but a theme – a thread – running through the entire Bible. Jesus came to rescue us when we were most helpless, just as the God of Israel had done throughout the Old Testament. He didn’t just send us provisions to meet our needs; he came in person. We are called to do the same. There is no substitute for a smile, a kind word, a touch, and time spent with someone. I don’t know about you, but my greatest need is to know I’m loved. There’s nothing that says, “I love you” like a personal visit.

I think we have fallen into the trap of believing that money solves all problems. We believe it about our own lives – if I just had a little more, I’d be happy. Well, it’s not true for us and it’s not true for them. Yes, financial support is important. But it is no substitute for what happens when they see a bus roll down their street full of Christ-followers who cared enough to come spend time with them and share not only the gospel of God, but our lives as well.” (1 Thessalonians 2:8)

I can’t share my life with them without ever seeing them. I love my friends who are investing their lives in these children full time. This is so important, because I’m fooling myself if I think one week a year is going to change the lives of the people in Addis.  Right? 

Wrong..... if my visits encourage the hearts of those God is using there 365/24/7, then yes, it is making a difference. I’m talking about both the leaders who were born in Addis and devoted their lives to changing their community and those from other countries who have been called to live there full time. I go each year praying that something about my visit will help my friends there lift up Jesus and change the lives of the children. It’s not hit-and-run ministry; it’s a small part in a bigger plan. 

To the extent that I remember that, I can get excited about how God is using me without getting a false sense that I have to save everyone because I have limited time. I am there to serve the people God has placed there.

It changes me. 

God has worked through my Africa experience to give me heart for orphans in our community. My eyes have been opened to needs all around me, and it began when he opened my eyes to the needs of children 8,000 miles away. 

I have a much greater view of how big God is and his plan for the nations because I’ve seen his work among the people of Addis. If you want to really see the heart of God, spend time with the people he has a heart for.

Those are just a few reasons – well, looking back maybe I did write a book! But there’s just so much to say. God is more awesome, merciful, loving, powerful, and wise than I ever imagined before July 2010.  And I owe that to my dear friends in Ethiopia.

And so I keep going back for more.


Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Still time to sign up...

As many of you know, I started this blog to share about my first trip to Africa four years ago. Well, we're going back again this summer, and we would love for you to join us. Check out this video from Visiting Orphans:



If you are interested, join VO for an informational call Friday…here are the details:

GO.BE.LOVE Lunchtime Call Series

Or just go straight the website and register:

Visiting Orphans - Manis Team 2014

Do this. Or do something else for orphans and widows (James 1:27). But please…do something.

Wednesday, July 24, 2013

Visiting Orphans - so what's it about anyway?

So, if you know me...or read this blog...you know that my personal journey took a major turn three years ago. My awesome niece Brooke challenged me to step out of my comfort zone and go on a trip with her to Africa. I never imagined that would happen, and now I can't imagine life if it had not.

There is amazing organization that has made it all possible, and you've heard - or read - a lot from me about it since then. It's Visiting Orphans. But up until now, you have mostly had to follow my feeble attempts to explain what it's all about. No more.

At this very moment, 12:00 CDT on July 24, they are releasing a new video that explains it a hundred times better than I ever could. So I ask you to take a few minutes and watch it. If nothing else, my rambling will make more sense. Here it is...



So there you have it. Their story...and mine. Maybe it will be part of your story too.

Go. Be. Love.

Thursday, June 27, 2013

Back to Africa


Macy...

Steve...

Clark...

Mike...

Sarah...

Emily...

Mark...

Melissa...

Rhamsie...

Trisha...

Tommy...

Kendra...

Campbell...

Melissa...

Lexie...

and Donnie.

These are names that I hope will find their way to your prayers. An awesome group of individuals coming together for one purpose - to share the love of Jesus with children on the other side of the world.



Our journey begins tomorrow, and we will land in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia Sunday morning. We will spend a week there and I cannot wait to see the great things God has in store. But it's all him, not us. So your prayers are desperately needed.

Wifi is spotty and time is precious. If I good signals correspond with free time, I hope to send a blog post or two. If not, well, I'll update you when we get back.

Either way, thanks for your prayers. Things are about to get good.

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Can't wait!

It's coming up fast. Before long, I will be headed back to a very special place where some amazing people live. And I will be going with an awesome group of people. Yes...it's back to Ethiopia. And I can't wait!


It really hit me today as I had to go to the Health Department and get a vaccination that had expired. It's errands like this that let you know it's coming up soon. And it is...just a little over two weeks.

I wish all of you could experience what is going on there. God is working in ways that are beyond our comprehension. As I left last year, I was pretty sure I couldn't stay away. 

One of the really cool things this year is how I am going get to go with so many awesome people. God has put together an amazing team - longtime friends and family, friends I met through my trips, and others who I know will be my friends soon.

There is my niece Macy who is going back for the second time:


There are my friends Steve, who has been helping my walk close to Jesus for more than 30 years...


...and Clark, who lives less than a mile away from me and inspires me every day with his commitment to the Kingdom:


And then there are good friends I met on past Visiting Orphans trips to Ethiopia, and I can't wait to serve with them again. There's Sarah from 2011...


And Mark and Melissa from last year...


And then there are Mike, who I met at VO training a few months ago, plus another eight brothers and sisters who I will meet face-to-face when we leave. If past trips are an indication, I will miss them when we head home.

How does that happen? I think it's a mutual commitment to Jesus and to loving children, and an attitude of wanting to honor each other and look to for each other's interests instead of their own. That can come only from God's Spirit, and it has a tendency to make for strong friendships.

So bring it on! Let's get on with God's business. Can we start now?

Wednesday, March 20, 2013

Going back for more...link

Well, it's been a few days since I posted here. One reason is that I wrote a guest post for the Frazer OneFamily blog. It was a word picture of why one community in Ethiopia is so important to me, and why I keep going back.

They shared it tonight...so, in lieu of a post, here it is:

Going back for more

Saturday, February 23, 2013

Ties that bind

See the picture to the left? What an amazing group of people...some of the best I know. Together, they are a community of people who love each other and are committed to stand together in working on behalf of the oppressed. What is the most remarkable thing about all that? The fact that many of us met each other only two days ago.

That's what it's like with the kingdom of God and his children. This particular group came together this weekend to share plans for reaching out to orphans all over the world and to be trained for the work. Each person in this picture will be part of leading Visiting Orphans teams during the next year. There will be close to 60 teams going out, and that means a ton of responsibility for each leader. I am so grateful for this group, because:
  • It includes the VO staff, who coordinate everything about our trips including schedules, budgets, organizing the teams, and training. Before this weekend many of them were names, voices, and email addresses. Now I've met them all in person, and it already feels like I've known them for years.
  • The rest of them are volunteers, people who have answered God's call to lead teams all over the world obeying James 1:27. I had only met a few of them before Thursday, but again it seemed like we were old friends. There is nothing that brings people together like knowing they are brothers and sisters in God's family and that they are united in their purpose to take the Good News to the nations.
  • Together, we learned so much in such a short amount of time. It's a lot to process, but the time we spent is going to make us all better leaders.
Thanks to the staff for putting together such a great program. And for bringing us together to become one in Christ. I cannot wait for June 29. And I can't wait to hear about what the Father does through my new friends. It's going to be a great 2013!

Tuesday, January 15, 2013

Whatcha doing this summer?

No, it's not too early to think about summer - especially once football season ends. To do really cool stuff, sometimes you have to plan ahead. Travel. Time off work. Seeing friends and family. Yep, we may be in the cold of winter, but summer isn't too far away.

Three years ago, my niece Brooke challenged me to do something different. Instead of just going to the beach, or going on a cool vacation, she wanted me to take her to Africa. Not for a safari, but to visit children who were in desperate need of someone to love them.

My life has never been the same. I found a community in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia that I couldn't get out of my head...or heart.


Last summer, I led a small team back there - here are some highlights:



So what are you doing this summer? If you have a week, pray about joining us on a Visiting Orphans team as we return to share the love of Christ with these amazing children and their families. Registrations have really picked up in the last week, but there are still several spots.

Here is the page with more info about the trip and how to register:

Manis team, Ethiopia, June/July 2013

I can't wait to go back...hope you'll be with me!

Monday, December 31, 2012

2013 - time marches on


The changing of years is an artificial thing. It just happens to be the day on a calendar when we reflect the fact that our planet has a 365-day cycle. For the Chinese calendar, a new year starts around our February. The Hebrew calendar rolls over in September. In our culture, the new year begins a few hours from now. No matter when it is, it's a chance to reflect and to look forward. And so that's what we do.

2012 was quite a year. It contained all the challenges I wrote about a year ago, and then some.

Just a few highlights:
  • I broke my leg near my ankle in early February, my first broken bone ever. That was interesting. 
  • There were indeed big changes at my company. I got a new boss in the middle of the year, and our president retired in December and a new one took office.
  • I took a Visiting Orphans team to Ethiopia and once again my heart was moved to continue reaching out to the children there. I made new friends as part of the trip, friends who now mean a whole bunch to me.
  • My niece Haley graduated from Alabama.
  • My very dear Aunt Odell passed on into the Lord's eternal care. 
  • I read several books that expanded my vision of what God is doing in the world and what my role should be. 
  • Countless experiences with family and friends, ranging from travel to just sitting around enjoying being together. Never underestimate the significance of these.
  • I could go on and on (but I won't).
It's amazing how fast that went by. It really seems like only yesterday that I was in the Superdome watching the Crimson Tide win its 14th National Championship. And now that time is upon us again. Indeed, time does march on. So, as another year arrives, what do I want 2013 to look like?

First, I acknowledge that I have no clue what God holds in store. Any planning I do will be helpful, but there will also be many surprises. That said, here are a few things I want to focus on:
  • I want to make sure that my focus is on relationships and not just accomplishing tasks. I want to grow in my closeness to God of course. But also I want to develop deeper relationships with my family and friends, focusing on things that matter.
  • I want to pray more. I have become more and more aware that the real results in the building of God's kingdom will be accomplished by him. I am doing work that makes a difference, but neither I nor any other human (or collection of humans) can bring about his purposes in our own power. So I want to pray more.
  • I want to successfully navigate the changes as my nephew and nieces progress into adulthood. I want to always be there for them, but in ways that are helpful to them and not for my own benefit.
  • I want to continue to make a difference with the children of Ethiopia, and build awareness of their needs in my world. To that end, I am going back to Addis this summer. If you want to go with me, find out how in this link: Manis Team - June/July Ethiopia
  • I want to be a leader at work, bringing about God's purposes through how I treat people and the quality of work I do.
That's a handful. No way I can do it on my own. So I go back to prayer. By me and for me. Thanks in advance.

2012 was a great year...here's hoping that 2013 will be even better. Regardless, there are only a few years to work in this lifetime. Let's make the most of this one.

Sunday, July 15, 2012

Africa slideshow 2012

Here's a slideshow from our trip this year, featuring the music of Ryan Long (check him out). What amazing kids. What an amazing team. What an awesome God.

Addis, until next time...

Sunday, July 1, 2012

Impossible? The trip to Addis


The word rang out, piercing my brain like a screeching whistle through a bad headache. “Impossible.”

Around two hours earlier, I had been approaching the Atlanta airport on I-85 when we got a message from Frank, our Visiting Orphans trip coordinator. The first leg of our flight to Ethiopia had been cancelled. Immediately, Frank began doing research and did an awesome job of sharing our options with us. But it didn’t look great – there was only one flight into Washington-Dulles that would get there in time, and there were only a few seats left on it.

The next few hours are a blur. When we arrived at the airport, I ran in to try and get changes made while Macy and Jenny circled the drop off area. Another team member, Grant, arrived. As it appeared we might get on that flight, his parents helped us get luggage out and take my car to a parking space. There was just all sorts of teamwork trying desperately to get to Washington on time, because there’s only one flight a day to Addis Ababa and we so wanted to get to the children of Korah.

It turned out that there the seats on the flight we wanted were gone by the time I got to the counter. The agent said our only option was to shift to a Delta flight that arrived at 9 am, about two hours before our departure to Addis on Ethiopian Airlines. Sounds great except the Delta flight was going to the wrong airport! We would have to land, get off the plane, collect our luggage, find transportation, ride across town, and check in all over again for an international flight. Huh?

And so there was that word. Impossible. When we got to the Delta counter, the agent said it couldn’t be done. She said we needed to look at other options to get us there by another airline and/or another city. Amsterdam. While I was on the phone with Frank (who continued to give us outstanding guidance), Dubai was suggested. (Macy and Jenny loved that idea!) But regardless, she thought we were crazy to try our plan. We. Would. Not. Make. It.

Maybe not. But we talked about it and there was one thing we were sure of. This mission was prayed up beyond our imagination. And so God was up to something. Whether we made the flight or not, something great was about to happen. What did he want to accomplish through this?
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Impossible is a theme that pops up throughout the Scriptures. It was impossible for the children of Israel to escape the clutches of slavery in Egypt. A virgin can’t possibly bear a child. How can a rich man enter the Kingdom of God? And each time the concept arises, it is answered with a variation of the same phrase: With man it is impossible, but with God all things are possible.
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I write this blog post from seat 37D on flight ET501 to Addis Ababa. The scheduled flight. Because with God, all things are possible.

It was an amazing adventure that unfolded, and we marveled at God’s provision, literally laughing every time something happened that never happens:

  •        We got boarding passes for row 10 (the very first coach row) allowing us to be the first off the plane.
  •        The plane landed 20 minutes early.
  •        When we landed, we found out that Grant’s cousin would be waiting to pick us up and rush us to Dulles.
  •        Traffic was very sparse… in Washington, DC!
All in all, we got to our gate before boarding had even begun. And we laughed out loud, giddy with what we had just seen. The great thing that God had wanted to do was to teach us that impossible should not be in our vocabulary this week.
Some would say it’s impossible to make a difference on this type of short-term mission. Seven Americans flying to the other side of the world, simply to spend time with children and let them know they are loved – how could that possibly make a significant difference? How can a single week of semi-organized chaos change the lives of children living lives of extreme poverty? But now we know. With man, yeah, impossible. But not with God. And so we go. And be. And love. 

Friday, June 29, 2012

It's finally here...Ethiopia

Well, it's almost time. As soon as I've written this and finished with some last minute packing, I will crawl into my bed for the last time 'til a week from Sunday. Tomorrow night, with a drive to Atlanta, I begin this year's trek to a place that has captured a huge piece of my heart - Addis Ababa, Ethiopia.

It began two years ago on a trip to this place as well as Uganda. I went back last year and confirmed my feeling that it was a place to invest in.

And now we return. I will be traveling with an amazing team of six other people. I can tell from our communications and conference calls that they are going to be a fantastic group. Their enthusiasm bubbles through every time I get an email or see a Facebook post from any of them. I can't wait to get started working with them.

In addition, there's a bonus for me personally. I already knew that a member of my 2010 team would be there. Denae has returned to Korah twice for longer terms since then, and has been there since January. But I found out last night that two more members of my old team, Laura and Jennifer, will be there for part of the time as part of another VO team. So it will be a reunion of sorts - not a party but something better. Serving the Lord together in the same venue that we first did.

I will try to blog as the week progresses. Internet access there can be spotty, so the posts I write may be published after I get back. But I will try to post as we go along.

So as we begin, can I ask you to pray for us? Pray for our team to get their last minute packing done efficiently. Pray for smooth and safe travel as we prepare to all meet up in Washington, DC, and as we go on from there to Addis. Then for a great day of worship and travel recuperation Sunday as we prepare to hit the ground running Monday. But most of all, be praying for the children we will be visiting, that God would prepare their hearts to blessed by his love through us.

Thank you so much. I can't wait to share the amazing things that happen.

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Kony 2012 and causes in general

I would try to write a profound blog post on this subject, because I think it's that important. Fortunately, my friend Frank has written exactly what I would want to say. But better. Please read!

Link: Thoughts on Kony 2012 and Supporting Causes in General - Frank Pass

Monday, March 5, 2012

Ethiopia, Part 3

So...what are you doing this summer?

You can probably guess the big item on my summer agenda. Two years ago, I was preparing for my first trip to Africa. I was apprehensive, nervous, and had no idea what it would look like. But hey, Lord, if I've got to do this, let's go ahead and get it done.


The trip came about for one reason: the and inspiration of a 17 year old - my niece Brooke.

Brooke and me in Uganda
Instead of just a vacation, Brooke wanted to do something after her graduation that would make a difference. So we found this trip with Visiting Orphans and went for it. Did she make a difference? Oh yeah.

I could spend pages talking about how she made a difference. But if I do, you'll stop reading before I get to my point. And I do not want that to happen.

So here it is: Yes, she made an immediate difference by loving on kids in Ethiopia and Uganda. But she also changed my life! Because of her, return trips to Ethiopia and the children I met there are something I cannot imagine not doing. So here I go again.

But this time, I am going to be a team leader. I am putting together a team to go back to Addis Ababa and spend time with the children of a community which lives off the city's trash dump. It is a place that God has put on my heart, and I can't wait to return.

So I'm putting it out there. If any of you, my friends, are looking for a chance to be used by God in ways you cannot even imagine, I would love for you to join my team. If you do, you will be changed. For good. And I've got to say, it would be cool for me to work side-by-side with friends.

It is relatively short trip, from June 30-July 8. There's lots of time to plan. Here is a link to the details on signing up:

Visiting Orphans: Ethiopia with Donnie, Summer 2012

If you want to know more about it, email me at donmanis@yahoo.com, and/or read some of the links below to previous blog posts.

Hope some of you will pray about going. Either way, please pray for me and for the children we will be visiting. Thanks!

Helpful links:

A community in East Africa (Facebook note from a friend)

Seeing God working

Why Africa? (Project 61 blog)

Does visiting make a difference? (Includes a must-see video)